Monday, February 15, 2010

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The book you need to read is called "Your Health at Risk" by Dr Toni Jeffreys. It exposes some hidden truths about dangers in everyday food, as well as misconceptions about certain diseases. For example, the theory relating to the spread of HIV/AIDS - that this 'outbreak' occurred at the exact same time as the beginning of vaccinations. And, furthermore, drug abuse causes the immune system to crash, which, consequently results in common ailments attacking the healthy blood cells in your body with complete collapse and death.

Friday, February 12, 2010

Keep your nose clean / @Men'sFitness


via/ @Men'sFitness /
See the link for a response from Dr Steve about the use of the drug cocaine. Men's Fitness often publishes responses to letters from their readers. And this was sent by a 27-year old financial employee in NYC.

I will post another link to a book that draws from studies & scientific evidence linking HIV with drug abuse. A scientist from New-Zealand believes that HIV occurs (only) due to the crashing of an immune system. And states evidence that drugs, such as cocaine, attack the immune system, leaving it defenseless against any common illness. No evidence of any type of 'virus' that gets into the body, nor that it's even sexually transmitted. He refers to the outbreak of HIV in central Africa at the same time as vaccines are administered (his side note, vaccines also attack the body's immune system, and does the same thing that drugs do). Furthermore, the outbreak of HIV in 1981 in America is linked to an increase in the use of recreational drugs (mostly among homosexual men). I find articles like these fascinating, since it was recently discovered that the so-called swine flu was created by pharmaceutical companies in order to increase sales/profit from vaccines/medication. My point: Never to accept the 'popular info' on something at face value - in a capitalist world where consumerism is at the order of the day, companies need to make money - regardless of the expenses.

*On another note, to ensure you have better strength in your upper body, exercise those back muscles! Men's Health in London published this article:


The 'inverted row' seems to be one of the most popular exercises for back strength.
*I suggest this gym routine to increase back strength:
Day 1: Chest / Shoulders / Triceps
Day 2: Back / Legs
Day 3: Abs / Biceps
Day 4: Back / Shoulders
Day 5: Rowing / Swimming
On that fitness note, I'd like to wish you a happy & blessed Valentine's weekend. If you don't have a special person in your life, then make someone feel special. I bought chocolates & cake for all the ladies in my office, and further surprised them with flowers. Being alone is not always such a curse - it just means that you have the exciting anticipation of still meeting the right person! Have love in your heart (this weekend, as always), since it's the most powerful force we can emit.

Ref //'All for love,' Bryan Adams, Rod Stewart & Sting, from @The Three Musketeers (OST) //
"When it's love you give / then in love you'll live /
I'll be the rock you can build on / be there when you're old, to have and to hold /
When there's love inside / then there's a reason why /
I'll be the wall that protects you /
From the wind and the rain / From the hurt and the pain ..."



Image: From 2009 / Louis Botha Fashion Shoot (c)

Thursday, February 11, 2010

The Weak Spot


Hey! It's almost weekend, unbelievable! And, as my previous post mentions, it's that soppy time of the year again where you feel real yuck if you don't have a partner. Ah well. May all the happy couples be blessed.
See, what upsets me is not necessarily being alone, but doing nothing AND being alone. I have to be busy. Of course, being with people I like helps to get your mind off depressing thoughts. My motivation is low at this point of the week - since most of my mates have steady relationships, and in my case, seeing a girl on/off (who does not even live in the city), makes matters awkwardly depressing. So while all my closest friends & their hangers-on jet off to romantic destinations/ hotel rooms, I would have to face this miserable city and find an excuse to be happy. Lol. It's not all that bad - I have a party to look forward to on Sunday. (Love Sucks). And a late Monday morning at work. Oh and then on Monday night joining John Vlismas on (radio) Jacaranda FM. Besides, when you have busy weekends all the time, it's a calming thought to face a weekend where I can chill out, read a book to inspire me again, jot down ideas to become that millionaire I wanna be, and plan ahead. Planning, planning, planning. Now, there's an idea. We are too lazy to plan. And those who plan, are those who make things look so easy. It just falls into place. So, if that is your weak spot, like it is mine, make a point of planning - write it down.

* This morning at gym - worked on the chest. Did not have as much energy - I am beginning to think that my best time to train is late afternoon, 4PM! I did that on Tuesday this week, and wow, huge difference in energy levels. So perhaps from now on - I'll do some rowing/swimming (other cardio exercises makes you burn muscle quicker) in the mornings, and heavy weights in the late afternoon.

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Love Sucks! ;)

As a play on words, the "Love Sucks" party is happening this Sunday at Urban Tree in Jhb, and I'll be there with my camera crew to shoot the action for Vuzu. Of course, 'love sucks' is referring to the current series of Vampire-inspired material that is the hype. On another level, it could mean that you're not involved, and simply hating on all the love in the air. It's Valentine's Day on Sunday, which gives many companies a chance to sell an extra truckload of heart-shaped chocolates and over-sized, puffed-up teddy bears. And red roses. And love stories about vampires. Lol. Well, if you're in Jhb, join me, and 5fm DJs Poppy, Grant & Anele, Sasha M, and Roger Goode on Sunday evening from 18.00 at Urban Tree for a rocking party!!

Speaking of 'love' - How often do people fall in love with someone they can never really be with? How many stories/movies/books/poems are about this situation. I begin to wonder whether that is the way life works, or, whether we are just (sometimes) impatient and not willing to wait for the 'right one.' Some argue that there is only 'one' person to fall in love with - the others are all different versions of this person. Apparently, the first person you (really) fall in love with, is the 'love of your life.' So be it. Love is complicated. A complex web of emotions. And telling this person (the one you can't be with) how much you love this person, only makes matters more intense, for yourself. You can dream and wish, though, the reality of the situation might be too tricky to ever turn it into a reality. That is when acceptance is crucial. When you have to understand that in your heart it might always feel a little empty, but being strong, looking forward and believing in solutions, is honestly the only way to avoid getting completely depressed.

If all else fails, let's just party it up and rock on!!! :) :)

Tuesday, February 9, 2010

There's a tunnel. Now, see the light!


I spoke with a good friend in New York City earlier today - about finding the solution. A good colleague of mine taught me a few years back that we are faced with problems on a daily basis - though, looking at the problem, and complaining, is the easiest thing to do. The exciting challenge should be to look for the light in the dark tunnel. You'll find yourself in a pitch-dark tunnel non-stop, that's if you don't discipline yourself to open your eyes, and look for the light.
This mate of mine in NYC has been doing the same job for the last few years, and constantly feels bogged down, and depressed about not being able to progress into the right direction sooner. Although he enjoys the gym, and training, very much, he is still unsure of which direction to go to get out of his current, low-paying, boring job. My advice was this, train a little harder - use all your free time in the gym (spend all your money on gym & food), and get a brilliant physique. Then, knock on the door of every modeling agency, with the aim of doing shoots for fitness modeling/clients. With perseverance you/he will succeed. With a brilliant physique and, even average looks, he will still book shoots. These jobs will provide extra income, and he might be able to start studying. A short course or degree will enable him to leave the current job, and start pursuing his goals & dreams. Sounds simple. Yet, he questioned me about his looks and ability to succeed, "there are so many models here, I will never book shoots," and, "I just don't look good enough compared to all these models in NYC." Problems. Only staring into the problems. And yet, he has so much potential, just like everyone of us.
If my message is not clear enough today, then this is all I have to say, never, ever, moan or complain again if you haven't thought of at least 5 practical solutions for your obstacles/problems. If you focus on the solution, you will never see another problem in front of your face again!!
Have a blessed day!
XX

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Another heads-up: Find the purpose!


Hi. Hello. Good morning. Good day! Amazing what a strong cup of coffee does to my energy levels - and a crisp breeze; Lol; lights up my enthusiasm for the day ahead!
Firstly, today is 3 Feb 2010 and my dear mother is turning 50. Whether us boys are mommy's boys or not, I think our mothers play the most important role in our lives. So, thank you, to my own very special mother, and to all mothers that care, nurture and listen to us through different phases of life. Showing appreciation - even when you don't always feel like it - will be rewarded. It's so cliched to say, "have gratitude," but honestly now, when you are grateful for things in your life, it simply gets multiplied. Tried & tested - when you give to others what you enjoy receiving, it will be given back to you (perhaps in a different form). Sometimes, ten times over.

One of the toughest challenges is to stay motivated. Or to find motivation. I spoke with a friend earlier today who felt directionless, and unsure of what to find for motivation. My advice: Get a piece of paper, right now, and write down - what do you enjoy in life, what do you love doing, what do you want to be/have; then, make notes of what you think you should do to attain those things. Well, then, get started!
There is really no excuse for not having motivation. When you have a plan, you'll have a purpose. When you have a purpose, you'll be motivated. And with motivation comes growth, which equals the ability to achieve success!

Dig into your heart - be happy for everything that you have going for you - whether it's health/fitness; a great partner; a job; or just the knowledge that you can do better. That's already a start. And don't be distracted - especially that thing where many of us spend plenty of time on - Facebook. Use it wisely, limit yourself. Don't chat online. I mention this since it was my own downfall into being distracted. The same goes for emails - allocate 3 specific times in the day where you read/respond to mails. Period. If you start to value your own time, and make every second be productive or useful, then people will also start to value that.
Find your purpose, and value your time. Get going!!! =)
XX
PS: Thanks, again, to Louis Botha for the picture attached.